The best female-focused sex toys to add more pleasure to your personal playtime

Take control of your sexual wellness with these modern, woman-focused playthings. 

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65% That’s how big the masturbation gap is in Australia, with men self-pleasuring 155 times a year and women just 54. Not only does masturbation reduce stress, improve sleep and relieve period and muscle cramps, it’ll also boost your mood, which makes that “personal” time a worthy investment. If you’re unsure about masturbating, try using a sex toy – research shows that they help one in six women feel less ashamed about doing it and 25 per cent achieve orgasm more easily.

The wear-all day vibrator

Tap into good vibrations wherever you are with this discreet personal massager. Made from silicone, it can be activated remotely and comes with a slip-proof magnet so you can wear it underneath your clothes for all-day enjoyment.

Shop it: We-Vibe Moxie, $149.95, at LoveHoney

The silent pulser

The curved head and ridged sides are uniquely designed to stimulate the right spots on the vaginal entrance, along with G-spot vibration. With four speeds and three pulsation modes, it’s super quiet, too.

Shop it: Smile Makers The Romantic, $119.95, at Nourished Life

The Kegal beads

Use these weighted Kegel beads to strengthen your pelvic floor (and your orgasms). Slip them in before you leave the house and they’ll roll, vibrate and shift as you go about your day.

Shop it: Lelo Beads, $59.99, at Femplay

The original Rabbit

With a design popularised in TV show Sex And The City, not only does the Rabbit boast 10 different vibration patterns, it’s also waterproof and comes with an impressive two hours of battery life.

Shop it: Par Femme MMM Rabbit Vibrator, $139.95, at The Iconic

The best vibrator for solo fun

Offering touchless stimulation through gentle air pressure, this waterproof vibrator comes complete with an autopilot mode that alternates between 12 intensity levels so you can sit back, relax and climax.

Shop it: Womanizer Premium Air Stimulator, $279.99, at Wild Secrets

The water-resistant vibrator

This handy silicone vibrating massager is water-resistant for bath and shower play. Soft to the touch, it’s discreet enough to travel with – or live on your bedside table.

Shop it: Maude Vibe Personal Massager, $70.04, at Revolve

The flexible wand

This flexible waterproof wand can be used both internally and externally, and is shaped to the contours of your body. It’s quiet, equipped with 10 speeds and is USB-chargeable.

Shop it: Unbound Bender 100, $100.68, at Adore Beauty

The rose quartz egg

Made from genuine rose quartz – the crystal of love – this stone egg is said to help strengthen your pelvic floor, create more lubrication and intensify arousal.

Shop it: Kiki De Montparnasse Crystal Stone Egg Rose Quartz, $111, at Kiki De Montparnasse

The hands-free toy

The flexible wings on this vibrating toy gently sit along the contours of your intimates for a secure, hands-free experience. The whisper-quiet motor makes it ideal for private time, too.

Shop it: Dame Eva II, $210.13, at Revolve

All products featured in this article are selected by our editors, who don’t play favourites. If you buy something, we may get a cut of the sale.